http://ventingtree.com/its-pretty-sad-when-your-own-friends-wont-let-you-talk-to-them-so-you-need-to-resort-to-the-internet/ real-time confession and venting Mon, 21 May 2012 23:37:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 http://ventingtree.com/its-pretty-sad-when-your-own-friends-wont-let-you-talk-to-them-so-you-need-to-resort-to-the-internet/comment-page-1/#comment-702 Tony Fri, 12 Mar 2010 19:29:23 +0000 http://ventingtree.com/its-pretty-sad-when-your-own-friends-wont-let-you-talk-to-them-so-you-need-to-resort-to-the-internet/#comment-702 Wishing you well. : ) Wishing you well. : )

]]> http://ventingtree.com/its-pretty-sad-when-your-own-friends-wont-let-you-talk-to-them-so-you-need-to-resort-to-the-internet/comment-page-1/#comment-696 Taanya Thu, 11 Mar 2010 03:07:55 +0000 http://ventingtree.com/its-pretty-sad-when-your-own-friends-wont-let-you-talk-to-them-so-you-need-to-resort-to-the-internet/#comment-696 It's nice to know someone cares and what you said Tony is exactly how it is.. i dont always feel like this but when i do its really bad. thaanks alot guys :] It’s nice to know someone cares and what you said Tony is exactly how it is.. i dont always feel like this but when i do its really bad. thaanks alot guys :]

]]> http://ventingtree.com/its-pretty-sad-when-your-own-friends-wont-let-you-talk-to-them-so-you-need-to-resort-to-the-internet/comment-page-1/#comment-687 Tony Wed, 10 Mar 2010 05:32:27 +0000 http://ventingtree.com/its-pretty-sad-when-your-own-friends-wont-let-you-talk-to-them-so-you-need-to-resort-to-the-internet/#comment-687 You are describing the symptoms of a MAJOR depressive episode. I know, I've had them. The chemicals in your brain that regulate emotions are not balanced. It is a hard thing to understand that a chemical imbalance can wreak such havoc in your life. You have to go to a doctor NOW. You will not always feel this way, you will get better. The feelings of being a burden and being "trapped in your head" will go away. The fog will lift, a brighter day will come. You must think of this as an illness, not something to be embarrassed about. Just like a broken leg needs time to heal, your brain needs time also. Be gentle with yourself, just as you would if you were recovering from the measles or any other disease. Now that I know that you exist and you are sick, I can think about you and try to comfort you. That is what a sick person needs. So you are worth a lot to me. Know that things will get better. Wrap your arms around yourself and give yourself a big hug from me. Know that someone is thinking of you and wishing you well, you are not alone. : ) You are describing the symptoms of a MAJOR depressive episode. I know, I’ve had them. The chemicals in your brain that regulate emotions are not balanced. It is a hard thing to understand that a chemical imbalance can wreak such havoc in your life. You have to go to a doctor NOW. You will not always feel this way, you will get better. The feelings of being a burden and being “trapped in your head” will go away. The fog will lift, a brighter day will come. You must think of this as an illness, not something to be embarrassed about. Just like a broken leg needs time to heal, your brain needs time also. Be gentle with yourself, just as you would if you were recovering from the measles or any other disease. Now that I know that you exist and you are sick, I can think about you and try to comfort you. That is what a sick person needs. So you are worth a lot to me. Know that things will get better. Wrap your arms around yourself and give yourself a big hug from me. Know that someone is thinking of you and wishing you well, you are not alone. : )

]]> http://ventingtree.com/its-pretty-sad-when-your-own-friends-wont-let-you-talk-to-them-so-you-need-to-resort-to-the-internet/comment-page-1/#comment-686 admin Wed, 10 Mar 2010 00:53:59 +0000 http://ventingtree.com/its-pretty-sad-when-your-own-friends-wont-let-you-talk-to-them-so-you-need-to-resort-to-the-internet/#comment-686 First off, you're NOT worthless! Not at all, what you're going through happens to a lot of people, so you're not alone. I think of the most important things you could do is to share how you are feeling with those you are closest too.. regardless of how close you are to them. Other people can see things about our self that we often fail to see. I think opening up to others (which is like thee hardest thing to do when you're in a tough situation) will definitely help you get out of the isolation in your own mind. If you keep all your feelings and thoughts in your own mind then you practically ARE living in your own mind. And you should think about getting a new little kitty! Or maybe take this opportunity and replace your cat with new friends or more time with family? First off, you’re NOT worthless! Not at all, what you’re going through happens to a lot of people, so you’re not alone. I think of the most important things you could do is to share how you are feeling with those you are closest too.. regardless of how close you are to them. Other people can see things about our self that we often fail to see. I think opening up to others (which is like thee hardest thing to do when you’re in a tough situation) will definitely help you get out of the isolation in your own mind. If you keep all your feelings and thoughts in your own mind then you practically ARE living in your own mind.
And you should think about getting a new little kitty! Or maybe take this opportunity and replace your cat with new friends or more time with family?

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