Ok here it is. I don’t like putting inf…
Ok here it is. I don’t like putting information on these sites because it always seems like someone, somewhere is going to read it and figure out it is me. However, I am going to go for it anyway.
I am stuck at a cross roads, I can see two different ways that lead to two seemingly wonderful lives. But the problem is that I am not choosing either one. I am side stepping each opportunity that has been presented to me. Just staying stagnant and hoping some decisions will be made for me, even though I know that, life does not work that way. Some of my religious friends keep telling me, pray and let God guide you, but what if he already is and I keep ignoring him. This is where I get lost.
I know I have not disclosed too much information, but let me just say this, I can either continue what I am doing and live a semi-amazing life i see ahead of me. Or i can risk changing a lot in a short period of time and risking the semi good life for the chance at a better one, at the cost of possibly losing it all. It feels like a crap shoot…
So the question is, do I take the easy or the hard way. ( and i know everyone who posts is trying to help but please try to relate to a non religious person here… Saying,” The road to hells is wide and paved and that the road to heaven is Narrow and rocky” Will NOT help me in this situation as i have already heard it and i felt it useless.
Thank you for your time if you can write to me.
~Anonymous
sal 10:07 am on December 5, 2009 Permalink |
Which decision will make you really happy?
Will the “safe” option make your life mundane and unfulfilling? Is the payoff for the riskier option really worth the gamble?
You really have to look within yourself for the answers to these questions. Good luck with your decision. Just do what is right for you, and what makes you happy, and the rest should fall into place.
Matt 5:56 pm on December 5, 2009 Permalink |
I agree with sal… in these kind of situations you just gotta do what makes you happy or what you know will make you happy and everything should fall in place. And sometimes you have to step out of your comfort box, in your case you gotta jump out of your box and just go for what you know you want! Seriously if you REALLY what it.. you can have! So get out of you lil box and go get it!
Another thing to consider… Imagine if you did get off the road you’re on right now to pursue the road you really want to be on and you fail.. would it really be that bad? What would stop you from getting back on the road you were on? The best way to learn is by failing.. and you can’t fail if you don’t even try… And if you don’t fail, then bam! So look at it as a win/win situation